for those of you who are not aware...
an NAP, that is a NON-AGGRESSION-PACT does not mean the same thing, never has meant the same thing, and never will mean the same thing as being ALLIES
if someone extends their hand to you and asks to be allies it means they want your help and if you accept you want their help
-if you decline such an invitation and they attack you, it is NOT backstabbing
-if you accept such an invitation and they attack you, that IS backstabbing
if someone messages you for an NAP again, a NON-AGGRESSION-PACT this means they don't want to fight you at the time, maybe this NAP is to extend all era, maybe just for some number of ticks
if you say no and they attack you it is NOT backstabbing
if you say yes and they attack you it STILL is NOT backstabbing, yes it is a dirty play but it is NOT backstabbing...why?
YOU CAN'T BACKSTAB SOMEONE WHO WAS NEVER AN ALLY TO BEGIN WITH
YOU ARE NOT ALLIES JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN NAP
being allies means an NAP is INHERENT
having an NAP does NOT mean being allies is inherent
its like saying all squares are rectangles therefore all rectangles are squares...only an idiot would believe such a statement
for me there is no backtabbing because sometimes they plan it already and mostly they invite you for some invitation for them to read on what is on your mind and what the tactics would be, thats why im prefer to be ready for what will happen next and be sure you know every people you community and to network.. prevention is better than cure ^^