Diaz go away

Alright now that diaz is gone, I thought maybe you guys could make me feel a bit better about my situation...
Anyone?

I really need something to do other than listen to coldplay because that doesn't help much

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index ... 839AAtcOkJ

Follow the link there too for the original post

No one posted in my yahoo answers question so I decided to bring it here and usually I wouldn't lol

do u mind if I answer this question here, or on Yahoo, or privately through Skype or PM?

Anywhere is fine really

well I'll be posting here then, but if u want to go private, just tell me.

first, are u sure that u and her love each other truly?

... Haven't I been helpful lately?

All talk and no sex

For you, idk what she'll be doing

I'll give some very simply advice since you don't want anything complicated from me.


(This depends on how long the distance thing will last)

If you really want to do this, then do it. With todays technology I'm sure it's entirely possible. You just need to stick to a few rules.


1. Travel to see her as often as she does for you. 50/50, make sure she knows this.

2. Don't buy her that cheap-ass neckless. She's going to meet people a few years older, a few dimes richer... (a lot richer)

3. Don't hook up with anyone else. Doing this will just make you think "if i've done this, this and this, then she must have too" and you'll get all kinds paranoid.

4. If she starts getting paranoid, it's because she didn't follow rule 3.

5. If you suspect anything bad is going on (more than your usual thoughts), then let her go. It's already over.

6. Despite what people would advise, yes... You SHOULD smother her with text messages/skype calls/whatever. Just don't repeat "i miss you" and all that. Just act as if the way you are communicating is completely normal. That way you seem cool about it and she wont feel guilty.

7. Have fun on your own. You still have a life without her and things will be much easier for both of you if you remember that.

Done. All I can tell you is that it's a nice test. It'l be difficult, but really it's not that bad of a thing. Would be worse had you kept her there then broken up later, or had she spend all her life with you but blaming you on the inside for missing her dreams!


mm mm..


Oh and to add to Diazepam, be as (Want to be allies? Sometimes I like to pretend I am a princess riding a pony..) cheesy as you can... It won't hurt.


Also, try to promise each other to see each other WHILE breaking up, never "trying a break" (as that's virtually breaking up with a stupid excuse) and ending every conversation positively. It is very poisonous to have a fight over the phone then hang up. Try to end everything calmly and lovingly or you may end up building up worse feelings inside!


And it's not about the value of a gift, it's about the emotion behind it.

The following post is me being my usual self. You can choose to read this one or not.

This won't work and you'll just waste a lot of time.

Would you move away from her? No. Why not? Because you love her.

Would she move away from you? Yes. Why? [fill in the blank]

This happens to millions of people every year. I don't recall hearing about 1 time where it worked out.

You're so wrong. Anyone with a bit of a mind would pick a good education over some extra time with their beloveds. It's structurally WRONG for a relationship to give up such things. It doesn't say anything about love. A strong connection will outlast it.