Jake: I'm sorry I get upset over stupid stuff. There is no reason I should blame you how you felt yesterday on you, this sounds stupid but I love you unconditionally. You deserve better treatment than how I just treated you I won't treat you like that ever again
its not your fault and if I ever do remind me
No no no no NO!
Firstly. She was the one making you feel like shiz. She didn't take her medication... She admitted to you in her reply that she knows she has been giving you shiz. And right then, she realised that she can make you apologise for the shiz she gives you...
And secondly. Even though it's just one stupid sentence designed to make her feel better. She'll bring up "you said you'd never make me feel like this! you lied to me!" Etc, next time she gives you shiz. And tada! you will apologise again.
I'm in no way saying that women are like dogs. But this example applies to the situation. If you own a dog and it keeps barking. You want it to stop right? Do you train it not to bark by showing it that isn't good behaviour?
Or do you run up to it while it's barking, and start hugging it and telling it it's a "good boy" ? If you do that, it'll never learn.