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 Post subject: First Fight
PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 12:44 am 
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First fight with my girl friend I decided to cave and just fix it before I mess things up :)

Here is our convo, did I do okay fixing things up? (I won't give too much detail on the situation but its about her depression and how she makes me feel like shiza when she doesn't take it because she is pissed at me for no reason without it)

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Jake: I'm sorry I get upset over stupid stuff. There is no reason I should blame you how you felt yesterday on you, this sounds stupid but I love you unconditionally. You deserve better treatment than how I just treated you I won't treat you like that ever again :) its not your fault and if I ever do remind me :)

Jake: Remind me of what I just said*

Anna: :) omg! I love you so much. :) even through all the shi(z) I give you I still love you more than you ever know


My question is, does she actually mean it or did I make her feel bad? I don't want her to feel obligated to being affectionate when she doesn't really feel that way :/

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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Love,one of the things that kills humanity.

Well....looks like you want answers eh? I've dealt with these kinds of question :roll: believe I have and it really bothers me about them...

okay nvm..well you think you made her feel bad? naahh if she really loves u then why would she fell bad about what you said.

do you feel like the words you said to her are bad?

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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etartios wrote:
Love,one of the things that kills humanity.

Well....looks like you want answers eh? I've dealt with these kinds of question :roll: believe I have and it really bothers me about them...

okay nvm..well you think you made her feel bad? naahh if she really loves u then why would she fell bad about what you said.

do you feel like the words you said to her are bad?


No I feel like if she doesn't really love me though, I have just put her into a position where she HAS to say she loves me. Where she has to be nice, I feel like I have forced her into being someone she doesn't want to be.

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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mhmm...well why not just ask her if you got her into the position you think you put her into.

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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mhmm...well why not just ask her if you got her into the position you think you put her into.


I did, she said no she really does love me...

Idk im over thinking the entire situation :P

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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girls well idk how to say it.... but one moment they love you the next they are yelling my sig at you. sooooo ya that's how it works.

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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just run away and hide a whole week once every month and you'll be fine.

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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Jake wrote:
etartios wrote:
mhmm...well why not just ask her if you got her into the position you think you put her into.


I did, she said no she really does love me...

Idk im over thinking the entire situation :P


dude...why would she lie about saying she loves you?

never doubt the power of love my friend (are friends?)...

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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
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Jake: I'm sorry I get upset over stupid stuff. There is no reason I should blame you how you felt yesterday on you, this sounds stupid but I love you unconditionally. You deserve better treatment than how I just treated you I won't treat you like that ever again :) its not your fault and if I ever do remind me :)


No no no no NO!

Firstly. She was the one making you feel like shiz. She didn't take her medication... She admitted to you in her reply that she knows she has been giving you shiz. And right then, she realised that she can make you apologise for the shiz she gives you...

And secondly. Even though it's just one stupid sentence designed to make her feel better. She'll bring up "you said you'd never make me feel like this! you lied to me!" Etc, next time she gives you shiz. And tada! you will apologise again.




I'm in no way saying that women are like dogs. But this example applies to the situation. If you own a dog and it keeps barking. You want it to stop right? Do you train it not to bark by showing it that isn't good behaviour?

Or do you run up to it while it's barking, and start hugging it and telling it it's a "good boy" ? If you do that, it'll never learn.


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 Post subject: Re: First Fight
PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 12:09 pm 
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Erhm Jake... aren't people supposed to feel bad when they insult someone close, like REALLY close, then find out they shouldn't had? It's an acceptable feeling, and her feeling bad might be her way of telling herself she really loves you and should try NOT doing that again! Anyways, you really need to trust what she says more... a relationship isn't a BD NAP that almost every1 break when they feel like it... and if you really love her and she corresponds, then trust is incredibly important to have. Without it you will definitely split bro. Just had to put that out there :)

and if this was some troll thread like OP's, lynch Jake!

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