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shelton9778 · **Posted:** Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:52 pm

yes i do believe that shared exp. helps everybody

bye the way seth im doing a voting thing could you look over it and maybe help me fix it i would like to PM and discuss it and

Seth · **Posted:** Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:54 pm

Sure. Just PM me the details. I am about to call it good on the forum for today. I will likely answer tomorrow as I would like to spend some time with the family before I give everything a once-over before bed.

I do tend to get up in the night and check on things alot, but I usually dont answer messages too much during that time, as I do not like to answer messages while drunk from sleep :lol:

Ill do my best to get back to you early tomorrow.

shelton9778 · **Posted:** Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:57 pm

Thanks ill PM you what i can

littleconqueror · **Posted:** Sat Aug 27, 2011 9:27 pm

ya i've noticed that you randomly stop at times when we are having converstations but i understand you are a very busy man and you are still fun to talk to

shelton9778 · **Posted:** Sat Aug 27, 2011 9:28 pm

true as well

ads126 · **Posted:** Sun Aug 28, 2011 3:20 am

Yeah good luck mate, will see you in New Zealand whatilacked next earth 4

WhatILacked · **Posted:** Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:08 am

Seth wrote:

My pleasure dude. I really didnt have anyone to let me know how it would go, as no one I knew was in the same boat as me before. All of the uncertainty was the hardest part of it.

I figured I could share how things turned out on my end as an example. A sort of 'light at the end of the tunnel', ya know?

Again though, the most important part is realizing that the things you do now can no longer be for yourself. If you do not have a rich family that can float everything for you as you finish school, then you are going to have to face the reality that schooling is likely going to have to take a back seat, at least until you can establish yourself financially. Once you got the ball rolling with employment and stability, it is relatively easy to find local adult education programs no matter where you are.

Even so, you will be pulling double duty. There were many a' day where I would get up > go to work > leave work to go to school > get home pass out > repeat process.

It is not easy, but if you do what you know you need to do, then there will be satisfaction for you in the end as you look back on it and know that you did everything you did for the child, and that is good.

I won't get into the difficulties of parenting a teenager :lol:

but suffice to say that if you do your job right, then it will also be satisfying to know that you raised a good, stand-up, compassionate, loving and selfless person.

Again, good luck. If you would like any further advice on how to handle things, just let me know

Thanks once again for your thoughtful comments and support, i know that my life is no longer my own. Now it is centred around that child, its happiness, its health and supporting it and making sure there is food for it to eat. I do not come from a rich family and me and my girlfriend are both working hard on saving so we can get a place together asap.

She thinks her mother will kick her out if she knows? (Plausible its happened to her sister) and my parents reaction will only be a little better, we're planning on telling them once we have some money behind us incase of the worst.

shelton9778 · **Posted:** Sun Aug 28, 2011 7:52 am

I wish you the best

ads126 · **Posted:** Sun Aug 28, 2011 2:26 pm

Yes, soory for this to have happened, good luck on telling your parents and hers.

Nerither of you guys will get kicked out

shelton9778 · **Posted:** Sun Aug 28, 2011 4:46 pm

yea but there might be a shotgun wedding

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